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Friday, 12 December 2008

  • The Savvy Grandmother

    Putting Christ Back In Christmas

    "Luke 2:10 "do not be afraid. I bring you good news of great joy ... Today in the city of David a Savior has been born to you, he is Christ the Lord."

    What an amazing message.  Just as relevant today as it was 2000 years ago, these words have been repeated and received by countless millions.  Taken to heart for generations, this declaration of hope has brought light into the darkness and hope to the hopeless.  It is the good news of salvation and peace to those separated from God.

    Yet millions, maybe billions, have either not received the word or have heard but rejected it.  Instead, they choose to celebrate the birth of our lord and savior by partnering with a fat, jolly man who lives at the North Pole, rides a sleigh pulled by reindeer, and brings toys to all the good little boys and girls around the world.  What has our world come to that people believe this myth but cannot believe that a babe wrapped in swaddling clothes came into the world as savior and redeemer?

    As a grandmother, I confess that I have more often than not participated in this myth. From children to grandchildren I have wrapped presents, visited Santa at malls, hung stockings, left cookies and milk by the fireplace, and pretty much participated and perpetuated this fable my entire life.

    Shame on me!  And shame on the church for not setting the world aright.

    Now don't get me wrong.  I love Christmas as much as the next guy.  But recently it has become my mission and purpose to keep my grandchildren grounded in the word, aware of the truth of Christmas.  I have become a crusader of biblical proportions when it comes to keeping the record straight about Jesus and what his birth means to me, to them, and to the world.

    But how do I, a grandmother of four, fulfill my mission without ruffling feathers and disrupting routines?  Therein lies the problem; staying true to the faith while living in the world?  Or as Jesus describes it, being in the world without being of the world.

    As I've contemplated this dilemma I have designed my own personal "Grandmother Plan" to put Christ back into Christmas for my family.  Here are four important steps to consider:

    Step 1:  Be grounded in the word

    Being fully grounded in the word from Genesis to Revelation helps us to clearly understand the message of Christ. By understanding God's purpose and plan and by articulating it clearly we are better able to partner with God furthering his work here on earth.

    Step 2: Spread the gospel boldly and speak the truth in love

    Being bold in this season should be a cinch. The world still celebrates this time as Christmas. What better time to tell them that, yes, Christ is with us.  God's love did come down from heaven in the form of a baby, and he is still among us.

    Step 3:  Use the symbols of Christmas to tell the Christmas story over and over again

    I am reminded of that glorious night when the shepherds guarded their flocks by night.  Suddenly there was a bright light surrounding them, and the sky was filled with heavenly hosts announcing the birth to a stunned audience.  We are God's heavenly host here on earth now - sent to announce the good news. What better way than to retell the Christmas story using the symbols of the season as our springboard to tell the greatest story ever told.

    Step 4: Be intentional and do research. Make a list of potential opportunities.

    There are so many opportunities to share the gospel during the Christmas season.  Here are just a few ideas that I am planning to us in the natural that will educate my grandchildren about the true meaning of Christmas.  I encourage you to make our own list.  The internet is a great resource.

    - The nativity scene or creche:  Created by St. Francis on Christmas Eve 1224, a man who walked after God's own heart.  He used real people and real animals to tell the story.  What better way to tell the story of Jesus' birth than a hands-on-creche or nativity scene.  The story comes alive as each figure is handled and placed in position.  Reserving the baby Jesus for Christmas Eve makes the story real.

    - The Christmas tree:  Some say the Christmas tree began in the 8th century with St. Boniface who gathered newly baptized Christians together to renounce paganism.  Others say it originated in Germany where it was decorated with apples and candles.  The custom spread to England through Prince Albert and to America by the Pilgrims.  And we continue this tradition today. The vertical stature of the tree points upward, reminding us of God's faithfulness and his heavenly home.  The green on the leaves of the tree represent eternal life. What a way to tell the story of salvation.

    - Christmas carols: St. Francis and others sang the first carols around the creche.  If we study the meaning of some of our favorites "Hark The Herold ANgels Sing", "It Came Upon A Midnight Clear", "We Three Kings of Orient Are', "O Come All Ye Faithful', they tell the story for us. We just retell it in words our grandkids can understand.

    - The Jesse Tree: A tree that is decorated each week with ornaments representing Old Testament stories from creation to Christ's birth. What a way to give a child the big picture of God's purpose and plan from he beginning.

    - Candy Canes: These are great teaching tools, especially if you eat them as you talk. Just a few hints about the candy cane.  It is the shape of a J for Jesus and a shepherd's hook for the shepherd of his sheep.  The sweetness of the candy reminds us that we are fed on the sweetness of the gospel and are given manna daily by God.  The hardness of the candy reminds us that he is our rock, our strong tower, our protector.

    - The Christmas Star:  The star announced Christ's birth. It led the shepherds and the wise men to the manager.  It reminds us to follow the light of Christ.  The star first appeared on the first Christmas cards in the 1840's.

    - The Advent Wreath:  A traditio of lighting a candle each week in the four weeks proceeding Christmas. Scripture reading explains God's plan of salvation from the Old Testament to the Cross. Family discussion, singing, and prayer hep keep us focused on Christ and God's plan of redemption.

    Being a story teller is not hard when we have these visual aids to guide us.  Do your own research, be creative, and find ways to share more than just a surface telling of the Christmas story.  Grandmothers are the best at creativity.  By teaching, holding, and loving we are building memories as we plant seeds of eternal life in the hearts of our precious charges.

    There is no greater gift than the gift of eternal life wrapped in a package of grace. To be the bearer of this great gift is to bestow an eternal heritage upon those we love the most. What better legacy for a grandmother than to prepare a child for the coming of the Christ child, not only on Christmas Eve, but in his or her own heart.

Tuesday, 25 November 2008

  • Silver Hair - Silver Threads

    Silver Hair, Silver Threads
    By Marty Norman  

    Proverbs 25:4, “Remove the dross from the silver and out comes material for the silversmith…”  

    I am silver. No doubt about it - silver hair, silver heart. God knew what he was doing when he turned my hair silver. Somehow I think it reflects and is a reminder in the natural of the Silversmith's refinement over these many years. Clearly I have a lot of dross still yet to eliminate but surely I am farther along than I was before.

    As Grandmothers we have all been refined in the refiner's fire. Each of our journeys is unique, each one weaving a tapestry that we will only discover when we get to heaven. But God knows. Threads of life, a tapestry of wisdom, in all shapes and sizes, colors that weave in and out of conversations and behavior, revealing a picture of who we are and where we have been.  

    Recently I have been learning about the internet and the different types of networking opportunities available. With one click of a button the thread of a conversation can be followed from its inception to the present. It doesn't matter what transpired in between, the thread of that particular theme, discussion, or conversation can be traced.

    Wouldn't it be wonderful if we could click a button to follow the threads of our lives? I wonder what themes we would find. I wonder what surprises might be in store for us?  

    For years I have kept a journal. This journal is not your typical recitation of daily activities. Rather it is a spiritual journey that chronicles the places where God meets me, my god-moments, my god-opportunities, if you will. All of my successes and failures are recorded in this journal, the times I have been obedient, the times I have not.

    One thing is clear. My life does not play out in outline form. Everything is jumbled together, a hodge-podge of good and bad, happy and sad. At the end of the year I review the journal by marking the themes in red in the margin. I need to visually see what God and I have been about. I wish I had a “thread” button. Wouldn't that be great? With one click, everything would miraculously be printed in outline form. One thing is certain, however, the Lord is speaking. The threads of his conversations run throughout the journal. I just need to take the time to figure them out.  

    The same thing is true with my life. November is a time of thanksgiving, a time of inventory and preparation as we look toward the coming of the Christ child. It is a time to inventory our year, to look at the threads, the themes that can make a difference in the life of our families.

    This year I am going to do things differently. Rather than just make a gratitude list, I am going to go back and put the themes in the margins. Reviewing my year, seeing where God is working, clarifying for me the places that God is using me in the lives of my children, grandchildren, and the world may give me a clue to what I am all about.  

    It seems that each week more and more people are experiencing tragedy or facing a terminal illness. Death and suffering abound. We cannot escape the storms of life. But God promises to walk with us through the storms, even unto the valley of the shadow of death. We never know when our number will be called.

    This year I am resolving to be more intentional with my grandchildren. More direct in my witness, more open with my heart. Perhaps with my inventory I can see trends and threads that this silver-haired lady is involved in. Refining those threads by making sure they fit into the big picture is an exercise well worth the time and effort.  

    When I make that final journey, I want the picture I leave behind to be a clear one. I want there to be no doubt where I stand. I hope that my children and grandchildren will say of me that I was a woman of faith who lived her convictions every day of her life – even unto the last breath.

    One of my favorite www.Youtube.com is called “The Cardboard Testimony”. In it men and women of all ages walk onto a stage holding a cardboard square that summarizes their walk with Christ. Using just a few words, they describe the before and after of their encounter with the risen Lord. As I have contemplated my own cardboard testimony I believe that mine would read “Credit seeker – Glory giver”. When God changes us he changes us from the inside out. I have always sought credit for myself. I hope and pray that I am now a glory giver. My prayer would be that my kids and grandkids see and celebrate the Christ inside me, that the picture I weave is giving glory to God in all areas of my life.  

    Silver hair, silver threads – what a picture woven! Not until the last day will you or I know the extent of these threads.

    From "Heartbeat The Magazine" - The Savvy Grandmother.  For more information go to:

    http://www.heartbeatthemagazine.com

Monday, 24 November 2008

  • Turkey Day - On The Way!

    What a great day!  It's cool, crisp - about 55 degrees and sunny.  A perfect day to begin preparations for Thanksgiving.

    I just love Thanksgiving.  What a time of year to concentrate on our blessings and give thanks for our families, friends, freedom, home, city, and country.

    This year everyone is coming to my house. What an honor and privilege to prepare my Thanksgiving table for those that I love most in the whole world. I can't help but remember the early Pilgrims who came to America in search of religious and physical freedom.  What challenges they faced.  What strength and courage they had.  What hardships they endured to ensure that I live in this wonderful country today.  I am ever so grateful for them and their journey.  I only hope that if faced with the same challenges I would be able to go forward and not give up. 

    As I set my table and prepare the large assorment and variety of dishes that I will place on the buffet table, I am aware that I did not have to grow and gather this food myself.  It has taken many in many different professions to make this possible.  How blessed I am to be the receiver of their work and efforts.

    As we sit down at our tables this year, let us remember all those who have gone before, and who even now keep those dreams and that freedom alive for each of us.  As a nation we are blessed.  We are blessed indeed.

    Gobble...gobble... gobble...   Have a great day!

     

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  • Hi - I'm the proud mother of two and grandmother of four! I love being a mother and grandmother! It's the best. Life is good in this season and I am enjoying every minute of it. I love snow, the mountains, an early morning sunrise, and life. I have written a book about celebrating life and aging "Generation G - Advice for Savvy Grandmothers Who Will Never Go Gray." Check it out on www.amazon.com

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